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Things to do when you’re not working

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Gosh darn, how has it been nearly two months since we started to start closing everything down and calling Covid-19 an official pandemic?  It's been so crazy to think how fast in some aspects it's been, and also how agonizingly slow on others it's been to get to where we are at the moment.

One of the things I know I keep seeing pop up on my social channels at the moment are two distinctive opinion posts. They've got a very clear divide of people who post them, and I'd be surprised if you haven't spotted them during your (probably hundredth time today scrolling Facebook!)   One goes: "You have no excuse to not be productive during this time. If you don't come out of this with a new skill, you're just lazy!" vs the "It's okay, really.  This is a traumatic experience and you don't have to do anything if you don't want to."

For me personally, I'm part of the midground of the two statements.  Some days, I can't get out of bed.  Other days I've completely gone overboard with productivity and re-planted a whole garden.


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In all honesty, I don't think it's really fair on either opinion to be getting narky the other.  The reality is that this is a period of time the majority of us have never experienced before, and hopefully, when we get back on our feet again, we will never have to go through this again.

So what exactly do you do when you're feeling a bit pressured to become a professional pianist and win a Nobel prize by the time this is done?

Well for one, not having THAT high of an expectation would be a good start!  It might be that you just want to have a tiny bit of productivity to get you through the day, through to a new hobby that you can expand on if you find that you like it! So if you're stuck for ideas on either of them, I've got a list of things for you to try out.


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Feeling like you just need to accomplish something today?


    1. Make your bed and strip your sheets back
    2. Do a load of washing
    3. Clear out your email inboxes
    4. Also clean up your desktop!
    5. Do a deep clean of your bathroom (You know it's probably grotty.)
    6. De-clutter your mug/cutlery/crockery collection (if you have one!)
    7. Go through old clothes and put them aside for donation, or toss them if they're damaged beyond repair
    8. Give yourself a bit of love. (Mine, in particular, is making sure my hair has been washed as anxiety doesn't gel well with stressful situations)
    9. Wash your car (if you're allowed outside!)
    10. Water your plants
    11. Call your parents, or your best friend, or your neighbor - just check in with someone for the day
    12. Back up your photos on your phone to your PC (or better yet, your Google Drive, or DropBox)
    13. Check the expiry date of products in your freezer and pantry, toss things out that are out of date.
    14. Go over your bank statements to check for unauthorized charges
    15. Or do a complete check over your finances for a saving plan!

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Or maybe you're up for a little bit more commitment?

16. Learn a new language  (I'm currently learning Indonesian on Duolingo)
17. Start a new garden, or adopt a new plant!
18. Experiment with a new recipe in the kitchen
(Check out Julie's book on quick & easy recipes!)
19. Start a blog
20. Grab a bunch of old photos and start a scrapbook
21. Pick up a book you've meaning to read, or just onto Audible or Amazon Unlimited and check out some new titles
22. Learn or enhance a skill you've been putting off. I personally love Skillshare for creative content, and you can get two months free here!
23.  Do a jigsaw puzzle  (Check out Wasgij for SUPER hard ones)
24.  Create a time capsule
25.  Learn how to knit (It's not just for Nanna's!)
26.  Pick up a pencil and doodle away (It can be super simple like this one)
27.  Learn how to make some soap
28.  Or some sugar scrub
29.  Document your time indoors with some photography
30.  Try your hand at origami

Wrap up time!

Hopefully you'll find some of these useful.   Don't forget, it is totally okay to have energetic days, and it's also okay to have not so great days.  You do what you need to do to cope throughout this time, and if it's just as simple as making your bed in the morning, then that's one thing you can say that you have done.

How are you coping throughout this period of time?  Have you adopted any new hobbies?  Or found any tasks that you're finding particularly helpful? Let me know in the comments below!


So, I guess I became a plant Mum

When I was little, my Pop had this HUMONGOUS veggie garden at his house.  He would always plant very similar things each season, yet I always loved it. It meant that I could eventually go and pick said vegetables at a later point in time.  The veggies always looked amazing, and it was always immaculately cluttered but also chaotically structured working order. (It sounds likes my bedroom.  Maybe that's where I got my messy but creative streak from. Who knows? Anywho.)

Sadly,  I never inherited my Pop's green thumb.  Over the years, I've been gifted many succulents, and each one of them have died.  There's a running theory that I either:

A) Over watered them
B) Didn't keep them in the sun
C) Under watered them, or;
D) Completely forgot about them  (the more likely option)


This isn't to say that I didn't want to keep them alive - I was just young and naive, and the whole idea of keeping a plant alive wasn't really cool back in the old days.  Or, not to me at least.


Fast forward to my adult years:

Over the past few months,  my interest for plants has started to rise again.   A lot of the girls I used to work with grew plants, and my social channels, when they were being flooded with babies and engagements - there were plants.  I figured, well, I'm not getting engaged any time soon, and a baby is off the cards kind of indefinitely,  what about plants?  So I started on my journey for fake ones.

Kmart was a godsend for random-ass plants that looked pretty, and required el zilcho requirements on my part.  My favourite is one with a watermelon base (which was only like, $2 because the legs are cracked but that's a minor detail.)

This still didn't really feel like it was enough though. Y'know?  I loved seeing them, but I'm a hoarder.  The thing about being a hoarder is that all the inanimate objects that you collect,  you love them equally, knowing that they'll always be there for you no matter what.  Even if all your objects are taking up every inch of space in your available area.  (insert awkward smile here.)

The issue is though, unless you're super crafty, or at least semi-motivated, these don't actually change.  You can stare at your beautiful fake watermelon pot as much as you like - and it'll just sit there. Doing nothing. Year in, year out.

If we can remember one of the key points of my blog just for a key minute - I'm a midlife, mid-life crisis blogger.  AKA - I had a melt down at where my habits were getting me.


How absolutely banging is Sierra's bedroom and downstairs area, right?  I spent hours downloading mods one night, before deciding that I was going to take on an amazing house reno.  Apparently my inner child wanted to make it super amazing and bright -


I'm pretty confident by now we've all seen the movie Inception  and the idea of plants has just stuck in my head.  For months now.  So, I decided to do a real life Sims episode and renovate my deck, and the inside of my house and became a plant mum for the like, fourth time in my life.

Now I'm not an individual to test the water and see how we go - oh no.  Not me.
I went a little crazy:


These are just the ones that are outside.  There's another three cuties inside, plus a few other bright coloured ones that went to my front garden.  I'm pretty excited.  I worked my butt off making everything look pretty (and also avoided the builders next door which was a pretty large feat, if you don't mind me saying.)

I spotted a monstera today online which I would ABSOLUTELY LOVE TO ADD INTO THE COLLECTION but, I with withhold until I know I can successfully not kill at least all of these ones.  I shall keep you updated over the next few months.


Are you are a crazy plant person?  Do you have a favourite?
Let me know in the comments below!